I'm disappointed with mine too... for the same reasons. Stay the heck away from the phone... family can push all our buttons and we haven't got any way to deal with them!
If someone thinks you should "just get over it"... they need their head examined. Life sucks, but nothing is ever that easy, to just get over junk. (Unfortunately

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You're not crazy, but your family is driving you there! (Mine too.)
(PS. I'm partial to the Raspberry myself... tasty!)
(((((((((((((((((((JAX))))))))))))))))))))))))))