Well, I am a 28 year old mother of a three year old son and a two year old daughter. I found out last year that my husband had an affair. It started while I was pregnant with my son and didn't end until after I was pregnant with my daughter. The anger is gone, but the hurt and the thoughts are still there. I can't quit thinking about it. I've told him that I want to seperate. I think that a divorce would probably be the best way for me not to dwell on it so much. The problem with a divorce is that I've been a stay at home mom. I haven't had a job in over a year and have no income. I've thought about staying for financial reasons or at least until I'm more financially stable. I've been e-mailing my ex-boyfriend (whose always stayed a friend). I've never really stopped caring for him. Lately his e-mails have been a bit teasing. At this point with my relationship being what it is, I would love to get a divorce and be with my ex. I really just don't know what to do. Please, help!