you want ignorance? when i asked my husband (a doctor) if he had used a condom, his answer was, "should i have?".........i told him that i'd come into OR and shoot him right between the eyes if i tested positive for HIV. my doctor told me that i had to test every year for 15 years as they really don't know how long the virus can survive yet. i finally passed the 15 year mark and he will live til he dies of whatever.

i think that men who cheat on their wives usually don't use condoms......just my opinion, after asking a lot of them........