Question of the day... let's just say I'm p O'D right now and rightfully so ( wife made a comment about me being crazy when our 6 year old was listening standing right there) can my wife trigger me?

I'm beyond ticked right now. She had to go somewhere... called one of my 2 therapists and he's supposed to be calling back tonight when he has a chance.. if I have the time (I try to stay on same sleep pattern) I'll probably go to a restaurant and grab a coke and talk with him...... (I'm highly fortunate to have a therapist that is this involved and we have a great relationship even though he sometimes tells me what I don't want to hear.... sorry to drown on.. anyway can my wife trigger me? She says absolutely not that only I can trigger me!? Ufhxbxndoeixnxndjsk