First of all, Welcome to PC SadMommy!

I hope you can find the support you are looking for here.

I'm sorry you are in such a difficult place with your marriage right now. I have a problem with his comments to you that your relationship is all on you. It takes both of you to make your marriage work and it is just that, hard work at times.

I hope you find some answers soon to your dilemma. I wish you well!

Hugsssss
J