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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Are you instead pushing yourself to embrace the very things that have hurt you? Often that can be the way "trauma" can affect someone instead of "avoiding" the person pushes themselves into what could be considered "situations where they faced trauma".
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I have absolutely shown a lot of courage in my life, in that I feel fear at times, and instead of running away, I have decided to do or face whatever it was that caused me fear. I joined the military, I've done some public speaking... both scared me to death, but I did it anyway.
I remember hearing the story of a boy who was terrified of lightning. He decided he wanted to be rid of his fear, so he tied himself to a tree during a thunderstorm (probably not the safest or smartest way to rid yourself of a fear, lol).... it worked. I admire people like him, people who force themselves to face their fears.
But.... perhaps there might have been less extreme ways I could face my fears.... Like... I could have done without joining the military, in hindsight. So, yeah, I can see that I should be cautious about trying too hard to face those fears, to keep myself from overreacting.