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Old Aug 05, 2014, 02:16 PM
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Hi TJ, got to agree with the nurses!! Massive improvement!!!
I know you've slipped at times with the cutting but if you look back at the last few days and think about how many times/how deep/how often you would have cut in relation to surroundings, triggers, feelings.............if you were in the same "place" as you were before..........well you've got to admit/see massive improvement, right??!!
And alongside how much more willing you are to talk about how you're feeling, when you're struggling, what you've done, what you want to do, how you're actively seeking/asking for help, and using that well........pretty ****** amazing TJ!!!

And I'd agree completely with Rohag picking up on the "getting told off/getting a bollocking" from your named nurse..........great way to make you want to hide it/not tell anyone about it if.........hey?!! Which is the last thing you want to be doing!!
And it's not like you completely clear mindedly weighed it all up and made the deliberated decision to......is it??!! Should be much more about supporting you in going through what happened, in not finding yourself in that position again or in building coping skills so as you feel less need to...........if you do find yourself in that position again. I could go on, but have a word with her, hey??!!
Good that you do have some other staff who really seem to "get it" though.



Alison
Thanks for this!
ToeJam