I suppose I just wanted to tell you that I understand.

Sometimes I tell myself that I need to get out.... for my own good. Often though I would just like to stay home comfy in front of the ole internet or eating or both or... oh I do not know.

I wonder ... this touched me. Some people are also uncomfortable staying home.. Like they do not wish to spend time with themselves. So there.

I think there are certain situations socially that I really despise... when I need to make small (BS) chatter with people I do not know or be there with superficial folk.

Perhaps she is being condemnatory...and that is her loss. If she is not sincere in her words to you or creating judgement it is like trying to be superior rather than trying to be empathetic and in your place emotionally. It shows a lack of friendliness... depending on how it is delivered I suppose ... and what you are asking about... what it touches inside you. Can you find what it touches?