Being married to a marine was hard, he worked alot and was always stressed. I stressed on trying to be as busy as him so I would not ever be considered a dependapotamis. He got injured overseas and came back with a bad back began to feel useless and less manly because he could not be as sexual as before and pushed me so far away he basically led me to one of his friends and asked him to please me (sexually). I try so hard to get him to try and talk to me, to try dating again but all he does is zone out and go act stupid with friends. I am starting to give up on us because it seems he already has.