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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut
it does get an immediate reaction from treatment providers, and generally an extreme reaction. Even if the damage is less than what would need to be done elsewhere on the body to get a similar reaction. Just the mention of the concept of self-harming there is seen as extreme. Most professionals consider it psychotic, even when in reaction to trauma... it's one of those "go directly to jail. do not pass go, do not collect $200" kinda things...
bdsm gets similar reactions from health care workers, especially if there is a history of any mental health issues. there's a lot of stigma and judgement around both, more-so that any self-harming behavior. if it is ever taken to an extreme form requiring medical attention in the least, they over-react and treat it as a mental health thing.
the taboos around sex are still very ingrained into society. anything that is different from the basic stuff is seen as deviant and a mental health issue much of the time. there are more conversations around bdsm since the popularity of 50 shades of grey, but overall it's still a really taboo topic... which sucks. it sucks more when you try to explain injury away as that, and they still don't get it... :/
had really good T's though, and they had not over-reacted to it, just other people (gyn, pdocs, er docs...). but they were all trauma T's, or worked closely with trauama T's. new T does not know yet, and I have no idea how she will react to it. dunno if I can talk to her about it.
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i agree, i have had some therapist look at me like a total alien for self harming. and others that acknowledged that it happens and worked with me to stop and come up with more constructive ways to deal with my emotions. i think the self injury down there was more for sexual pleasure then it was to release anger or rage as was the cause typically associated when I would self harm. The thought of self injury to private areas came to mind recently although its been a very long time since I have done any self harm. its not something i am going to take into action though. I just wanted to see if anyone else who does self harm as done this. i didn't expect quite the mixed reactions tho. I do find it amusing that some who might self harm says this crosses the line.