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Originally Posted by hankster
I dont think you have the same values and goals. Do you even like each other that much? You arent living by your own values, like helping the girl lie to her date, or throwing parties you cant afford. And his driving crazy - my first ex-h used to do that, and almost got me killed or severely injured a couple of times. He would have preferred losing me that way to the shame of a divorce. Really, get out while you can. Start over. Get therapy.
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I didn't help the girl lie to her date. She asked, and I stayed out of it.
I did, however, help her cheat on her math class, which was my choice and had nothing to do with my boyfriend. So I don't see how that comes into play?
The driving, I just used it as an example of his attitude. He's never gotten me into a situation where I felt my life would be in danger. My previous boyfriend did, while driving, so I know the difference.
I think my frustrations really showed in this post to the point everyone's thinking there's no more hope. I might try to write a different post.
Also, I am getting therapy as soon as I can. My new university offers it for free, the only bad thing is that I'm not sure if I'll be able to attend classes this fall, so I'm not sure they'll still offer the services if I'm not actively taking classes...