(((((((((( Pink & Canders )))))))))
Always, always keep your receipts. That way, when you just have to buy something, you can always take it back in the next couple days when reality of the checkbook hits.
I seldom buy anything extra anymore because I feel so guilty treating myself to anything, but I did when I was married and it drove my ex even crazier because I always took things back.
Hugs,
Jan