Also, the thing that I'm worried may have made him anxious is that he said it seems like we have a lot in common, but for all we know we could yet be frightfully different. I said that yes, we had found our common ground, but we don't know too much about how our personalities would mesh together yet or what our other interests are. Now that I'm writing this, it doesn't seem as bad. But do you think it could have made him more nervous to meet me?