Hi I'm 25 years old and I'm having an issue with my girlfriend.
I've been dating my girlfriend for about two months and everything was great we texted everyday and hung out almost every day and when we didn't hang out we still texted all day. We worked together but she worked mornings and I worked nights so at work we really only saw each other for maybe an hour but we'd usually see each other after I got off. About two weeks ago I changed to a better paying job and literally overnight she just changed 180 degrees, now I hardly see her, and she doesnt reply to my texts 99% of the time. Whereas I used to get 30+ messages from her per day, I've gotten less than 15 from her in the last two weeks ever since I started this new job. I approached her about this and she said she wasn't mad at me at all and she was just anxious about our upcoming move togetherand that she wasn't feeling herself and that it scared her and that's why she wasn't talking to me. I was very supportive and I told her I'd always be there to help her and that if she was scared all she needed to do is talk to me when she is down and I'd comfort her. Since then she still hardly talks to me and I only see her if I go to her work to eat (its a restaurant) now I understand that she might be feeling anxious and not used to getting help from others but while she can't talk to me or hardly ever see me she apparently feels fine enough to hang out with another friend, go to dinner with him and his family, go shooting with him and has plans to go down the river with him tomorrow (a plan she said she made a month ago yet didn't tell me and we were still fine back then).Now don't get me wrong I have no problem with her seeing male friends and I'd never say who she can or can not see and I know that he is only in town till the 5th of September and that she hasn't seen him in years that's not the part that gets me what's gets me is that i feel like if I don't see her she doesnt talk to me at all, and I've only seen her 4 times over the past two weeks. 2 of those times was for less than a half hour, one of those times she slept for over half of it, also we haven't had sex in nearly two weeks before this change we had sex at least every other day. I dont want to grow apart from her she's a great girl and I get that we can't always see each other I just wish she would talk to me and I don't know what I should do.