My hair isn't that bad now (thank goodness!)
But today my friend made a remark in the car "Isn't she really old?" and she was referring to my boyfriend's mother who is in her early 40's. And then I said "My mom is in her late 40's but since she dies her hair you probably think she's younger, if she didn't dye her hair she'd look like Mike (my boyfriend)'s mom." My friend was just kinda like "oh...."
But many people make gray/white hair look beautiful.