My inpatient experience was daunting but was the best thing at the time, and afterwards I have nothing but positive things to say. I found the scariest thing there were some of the other patients, meaning everyone who worked there was really nice and willing to help. I agree about going to the groups. I tried to do everything I could to get better. So I went to all the groups, and a lot of it may seem like common sense, but it is good to hear sometimes. I had an allergic reaction to a medication while I was there and I am glad that I was there when it happened. They were able to give me a shot, and it was done.
Your wife will be proud of you for doing something you are not comfortable with and for taking that risk. My family was. Good luck.