sweety i am going through a very similar situation right now I have a friend of mine here in town I got really close to.....in fact I even argued I could have had feelings for her.

my mother was not allowing me me to keep a pet snake I had rescued at my house, I had asked her before in the past since she knew how to keep snakes if it could stay with her until me and my boyfriend could move out.

she said yes but she allowed her own personal life and issues to keep me from coming over and seeing my pet or her.
she even failed to tell me when the animal needed food knowing I would buy food for her...when and if she needed it.

but according to her I am in the wrong...fully.

she claims up and down I have too many animals and I could never possibly take care of the snake and the other animals of mine....

she went off on me a just a few days ago telling I was in the wrong for helping a friend in a bad situation that thought she might need for me to watch her chinchillas for a little while.

while trying to help them get them in my car....and get them over to my place...my car ends up overheating I comment about on Facebook (aka the root of all evil). And she goes off on me assuming I was getting more animals.

first off none of her business even if I am. Second I am going to school right now to be a vet tech. eventually in the future I would end up bring some kind of animal home from my work to give it extra time and attention to an animal...so when i think about all of this eventually she would have given me crap for something like this anyway.

its hard for me not to take all of this incredibly personally. Since it is attacking me as person and what I want to do in my life.

and I am sure for you the situation you are going through is just as bad.

but I agree with Thunder the best thing we both can do is learn from this hurtful situation and just move on.

even if there is pain/hurt and depression that comes along with it.