I understand where Mandala is coming from, but perhaps I am just one in a million; but I've always had a policy never to get involved with someone while they were under the influence. I was never a player, but there have been a couple of opportunities I passed up because of this policy. Sundance sweetie, you are such a wonderful person, with such inner beauty and strength; you're such a blessing to so many of us here. Thanks for sharing so much of yourself with us. This too shall pass.
Blessings,
Jon