I'm pretty sure you won't regret it if you love him like you say. But, think about it, if you guys are really, truly in love, it should not be a push at all to get married, it should just be a formality. I know it's hard, you're very eager to have sex also, it is so difficult to keep that at bay. I was a virgin until 23, and it's extremely hard to not want to do it. But, that's the thing. At 21 I felt like you did and I wanted it so bad, and I was in love with a girl too, and I wanted her to take my virginity. But, things change, they really do. Now, I'm 25, and I think so much differently about things. OK, I've been through some heartbreaking stuff but it doesn't matter, my core person has changed. I'm just so scared for your part that you are so sure you are in love with him now and then when you get to 25 or so (my age) you feel different, and then you gave yourself to him and you regret breaking your virginity. I also believed I would never regret losing it, but you do, trust me. And, once it's gone you can never get it back. I know you've heard that a million times before, but once you do lose it, you really really really and truly understand what it means to lose something you can never get back, and that feeling sucks a lot, especially when you thought you were doing everything right. Please just think about it. Maybe try to think of your guy also being more human. Maybe you are seeing him to highly like he is sooooo good, and you don't realize he is just a man, with problems and faults like everyone else. I know my words probably wont take any effect on you now, because you are maybe too much in love with him, but I would cry and feel so bad if you have to feel what I do today, the regrets and things. Please be careful and take care .