mouse - It is so hard to know what other people really mean. I have that problem too. Most likely it was just the first thing that came to her mind to say. She probably has experience having more fun than she expected sometime in her past. I usually find that I obsess about something someone says and when I eventually bring it up to them they barely even remember what I've been thinking so much about. I think this would be a great topic for you to discuss with your T.

by the way this is Marie31, you probably don't remember me I haven't posted that much, but I changed my username.