notafan, I'm sorry to hear your husband was injured and yiu are having problems. I don't know where you live but I suggest you get your husband an appointment at the nearest VA hospital. They have special programs for military people returning toi the states. They totally understand what you both arre going through and only want to help make it better, There is no other place that will treat yiu with as much care, compasion and dedication. If it is at all possible go see them soon.