I am lucky ..I have a wonderful Pdoc that works with me... Him and I both would always agree to a treatment... He understands my refusal to take any meds that cause weight gain that is a deal breaker for me.

But on the flip side I know alot of people that just want a doctor to tell them what to take and when to take it. .... So the bossy type pdocs do serve a purpose for patients that prefer to just follow orders.

Finding a good Pdoc is about as hard as finding someone you would want to marry sometimes.

Just keep looking .