The student-teacher relationship was first. I graduated, and I'm at a different university now. And she was not a member of the faculty of my school in the first place but just teaching one class via satelite, and she doesn't do that anymore. So it really isn't a dual relationship. I'd love to take more classes from her - I loved her as a teacher - but there's no chance of it. Actually, I counted on her as a therapist knowing what I am capable of academically, because I wanted to have a therapist who knew what my potential is. It still seems to come back to bite me though, doesn't it? But past therapists let me slide by and get away with not getting anywhere, and she won't do that. I still count that as a good thing that she will hold me accountable. I guess it's two sides of the same coin so I shouldn't complain about it.