Yeah that's a busy schedule... my wife home schools... I work anywhere from 40 to 72 hours a week depending on what I want... (open overtime).... so yah it's stressful. . But i am financially put (worked hard to get there for my wife and family) to allow her to do what she wants...... since I'm bipolar and make mistakes sometimes (no real affairs just fyi) she's "hurt" and doesn't feel close to me... this causes me some added stress and added triggers.. a hole hard to dig out of so.to speak... sorry for dragging my story into the thread.. hoping the best for you