yeah, I have already been taking part in any kind of activities that I possibly found interesting/ affordable / had time for. for example I went to an acting class where you have to work with people a lot, I helped with some big projects that involved many other people, I went to sports classes, etc... got rid of a lot of money and time but except that nothing ever changed. I am not only talking about being in bars but about any sort of situation that occurs in my life. the bars were just an example for me going to a public place so I don't feel like I am alone at home all the time. the weather is nice mostly now so I feel like I want to leave my home sometimes. I cannot think of anything I could still try...I just don't get in touch with new people. nowhere. they all already have their friends and partners who they probably found while studying or doing their jobs. but for me this will not happen because I missed the right time or because I'm just not that kind of person anybody would like to talk to. I guess I must accept that not everybody can have a life with other people around.