Fuzzy, I used to feel the same way as you...undeserving....
When you are in a relationship wherein you are receiving unconditional and consistent support you start to feel ok about it....not sure about what just came out of my fingertips...It's taken me a few years of therapy to learn that I have needs...valid needs...one of them being a need for support...it's taken me a long time to allow myself to reach out for the support....from people...or posters...who are capable of providing it....graciuosly.....