How ? Well, it was brought to me very clearly. Forced to to look at myself in a way. Forced to see mu behavior. However I'm covert. So I am very aware of my faults. And the gap between my faults and what I dream to be is overwelming. Almost too much to handle, so i do mirror people and get upset if they do not mirror picture of me i would like them to mirror. I cant hold relationships and i tend to hurt people. I guess, sometime we all have to take a look at ourselfs. Sometime we even manage to see the truth.