Wow! I don't think I will waste my time worrying that I will hurt someone's feelings if I tell them I don't want to have breakfast!

Long story short, the person I was meeting overslept. Fine, accidents happen. Suggesting I wait in a parking lot for another half hour was an irritating move and not possible since all garden work has to be done before the place opens. Going over to my house uninvited and leaving something to make up for it --- not cool! I never gave this woman my address!