Has anyone ever had this situation? I met my therapist doing couples work, and then my husband stopped coming and I continued on my own. Now, a year and a half later, my husband has decided to seek individual counseling and is going back to the same therapist. At first I didn't think it would bother me, but it feels a little weird now. My T knows more about me than my husband. I have spent a lot of time confiding in my T and I'm worried our relationship is going to change because of this. I tried to explain this talk with my husband and it didn't go so well, and he called my T "his therapist," which pissed me off even more. Then he tried to spin it like I was threatened by him having someone to talk to at all. He said the main thing he got out of his session was that he needs to "stand up to me" more. Would this upset anyone else? I felt like I was being accused of being a bully, and I wondered if this was really something my therapist told him. So instead of thinking about the kind of stuff I normally do, I've wondered if my therapist thinks I'm some kind of ***** since I heard. I had my own session, I could barely speak, couldn't mention any of this. We started late and ended on time with my T ready to usher me out as soon as he could. Just not sure I can do this. Why cant I have anything of my own? I know it's selfish, but F!