Yeah. My husband has seen him twice. My husband didn't tell me he would either time, both times I found out after the fact.

I saw my T today and I couldn't communicate. I had finally gotten to the point of being comfortable. I'm sure it's an overreaction, but I feel like the relationship is compromised. Especially given the needing "to stand up to me" comment.

My husband is completely withdrawn from me. Now instead of my therapy being based on what I say and what happens between us, it feels tainted by all the things I see my husband saying about me. Needless to say my husband and I see things very differently.

Oh and "stand up for himself" is absurd. But of course I never get to stand up for myself without being cast as the b****. I cant even stand up for myself to see the same therapist I've poured years of time and money into.