No. Narcissit mirrow themselfs, who they want to be and whatkind they want to be. We basicly define who we are trough others. We want them to see us in certain way, and if they do, we admire ourselfs in that reflaction. We dont want to see our own feelings through others, we want to see feelings that are for us in a other person. Any kinda feeling will do, as long as its feeling. Love, hate, anger, admariaton. Etc. We can interact with others without feeling ourself anything. Basicly and short way to say; We want us to be seen as rhe way we dream and want to be, and we are willing to go very far to get it.