I don't know if there are rules or guidelines for it, but my T will NOT see my husband and I separately. We've talked about it. Had we come in together to begin with, that's one thing, but she won't start couples therapy if it didn't start that way, and continued. I want my hubby to see a T, his choice, both of us together or just him...and my T has plenty of people she can refer us to for couples counseling, or counseling just for him. She would still like to see me individually, she thinks it's very important. I do too....