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Originally Posted by granite1
I would just start paying her back and then you don't have to worry about if you are grateful enough. although I suspect that you are.
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Definitely am appreciative, for sure. I'm not sure I could just start paying her back without having a conversation about it. I can see her getting annoyed and calling me passive aggressive if I do that.
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Originally Posted by Travelinglady
I suggest you thank her again for her support, and say that you would like to pay her back.
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Yes. I suppose I am intensely uncomfortable at even saying it out that simply, but there's probably no easier way to say it.
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Originally Posted by stopdog
I think it is fairly rotten of her to throw it at you all the time. Paying her (or finding another) would seem the way to go to me. I would not bother talking to her about it if it were me.
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In fairness I think what she's aiming at doing is giving me solid proof that she gives a sh#t. I think. Who knows.