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Originally Posted by blur
i agree with stopdog that it seems she pulls out the money thing and throws it at you. it seems she does it to give you a guilt trip when she doesn't like your behavior. while i generally think your T means well i don't find her very professional. i'd probably find a new T and pay her back. if she feels she is bending over backwards that is her issue and her lack of boundaries that she needs to deal with in her own therapy--not with you! you are not responsible for her lack of boundaries.
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Sometimes I really agree with all you are saying
and that I should go, but then other times it all feels ok and beneficial and good.
I can't decide if my brain is trying to trick me into staying in something that isn't good for me (by wanting to stay in the relationship with my therapist and persevere towards a good outcome) or if it's trying to trick me into running away (using the excuse of the therapist not being good enough).