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Originally Posted by Asiablue
The fact she's bringing it up at all says to me that she attached some expectations to it. Maybe not to be paid back but somehow you'd stay grateful to her or something. THat isn't a true gift and this is her "stuff" interfering with her ability to do a good job as a therapist.
I say pay her back and shut her up.
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But this is where I struggle. If she is essentially saying that I am negative and don't appreciate what people do give me - well, what if she's right?? Is she not entitled to point this out?..
I am really muddled.
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