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Originally Posted by Favorite Jeans
Your husband, whether consciously or not, appears to be trying to sabotage your relationship with your T. I think that, for me anyway, the doubt created by toxic little nuggets like "T says I have to stand up to you" would poison my relationship with my T and make it unworkable.
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Thanks. This put into words what I was feeling but couldn't describe. Even though he knew it bothered me he didn't tell me the first time, he intentionally set the appointment didn't tell me and went to it and waited until after it had transpired to bring it up. Then he kept referring to him as "his" T, rather than using his name which is how we've always referred to him. It felt like an ambush.