Thanks for the replies! Consistency is a huge factor for me as I am very sensitive to others moods, so I sense t is stressed or busy I close down because I feel like she. Doesn't have the time to see me today.
Body language is another one growlything, so important!
In gestalt therapy, the t i see is gestalt, she will sometimes imitate me and my body language to make me more aware of my expression, jst sometimes feels like she is mocking me, now, I know she isn't but I can't help get defensive