Oh gosh I know that to well. Sometimes I think it's me but realize I am a positive person even with this illness. Yes sometimes I dwell on I wish I could just get up and go but the reality like yourself taking a shower etc is tasking. On my really really good days in which has been few and far between. I wonder how it is possible to be so debilitated but in reality I know all to well. I think sometimes people don't think before they say stuff as well. My husband is very understanding and supportive. He does slip up with words sometimes that just makes me shake my head I know he didn't mean too. So yes some people are just ignorant of mental disabilities some are just like we all are human not meaning to be hurtful just a slip up.