It's nice that you're concerned about her feelings, but you need to understand that you can't keep every single girl who happens to be into you for the rest of your life from getting hurt.
Here's the truth: It's life. Hurt happens. And hurt NEEDS to happen, so people can grow and mature and learn.
If anything, this will be a good experience for the girl. People who never get rejected usually turn out to be snobs who think they can get anything they want. And I can guarantee you won't be the last person to reject her in her life.
You say "please no BS answers", but honestly, what do you expect? There are only so many things you could possibly do in this situation. You could continue on without doing anything and nothing will change, or you could tell her to stop. We can't make miracles happen for you. YOU need to make that choice.
Honesty is usually the best course of action. Don't be mean about it, but put your foot down so she'll know you mean it.
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