I was invited to a friends house (old friend of the family) for a last min BBQ today. Not sure if I wanna go.

Goig- if I go, I can see my friend who I haven't seen in a number of months, it might give me a chance to relax, my parents are going so I could just grab a ride with them.

Staying- it was last minute invite do I'm sure he won't care if I don't go. My parents are going either way so if I don't go I'll be able to relax here at the house without them. I won't have I pretend I care. I won't know many people there anyhow. The party is an hour away.

So do I go or do I stay?