We all want what we don't have - and sometimes those thoughts can be all consuming.

You'll probably be hard pushed to find a great deal of support from other women - the amount out there who would rather have your body as opposed to their own doesn't bare mentioning. Besides femininity isn't defined by a rubenesque figure - if it was we'd all be that way. You can get certain items of clothing to help define your waist for example, and then of course there are the push up/padded bras, but ultimately it would best to actually tackle this on an emotional level. If you can work with someone on coming to terms with with your body - as in accepting, not necessarily loving - at least you'll feel less pressured to conform to a look you can't naturally achieve.

If we look at this realistically, having a pretty face and a slim figure means you fit the ideal of a large majority of people. So although you're hard pushed to feel good about yourself right now, there are a lot of people out there who do appreciate your appearance. And we all know how looks can open up more doors in life.

I hope you find peace with the situation - and maybe one day see the plus sides. All the best.