I've felt like this before a little bit. On the flip side of this, I just think if my therapist flipped out and made a big deal of things, I might make a bigger deal of them too and that wouldn't be good. Maybe it's a matter of how you look at it? I never felt like my therapist didn't care about me or was secretly bored and unimpressed when I say something difficult about a situation that was traumatizing or humiliating. If that was my impression, yeah it would bug me. But, I do like that he can make something that I've built up to be super bad in my mind seem like less of a big deal, kind of help me process it in a less doom and gloom way so I can move on. Maybe that's all your T is trying to do?