I guess I forgot to mention this in the first post but I'm 25 and she's 20 but she always seemed more mature than that but I guess it might just be her age. As for that guy she's known him most of her life but he's been in Germany for the last 4 years and he's only in town until the 5th of September. He was going to help us move since he has a truck. I don't think she was doing anything with him he is more like a brother figure, that and she lives with her parents right now and I've met both of them, I'd like to think if she was doing anything with him they'd know and tell me. Also I'm usually really good at telling when people are lying and she doesnt show anything in her body language or tone of voice that she is being dishonest so I really don't think that was it at all. But I'll keep you guys posted as to what happens when I know. BTW the 12th is my birthday, great birthday right lol. Idk I'm a good person and I always treat the person I'm with good I'm not at all controlling and never abusive always helpful and supportive so I don't know why I can never seem to find someone who will treat me as well as I treat them. Its always great in the beginning then something changes usually abruptly and seemingly out of no where. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong.