I would think of it like with what she was doing on the phone last year?

http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...truggling.html

I don't know that she wants you to pay her back or if that needs to be an issue with you, I think she was just illustrating that "action" is important, slamming doors says something just like giving therapy for free does. She not only says she cares but she acts like it, she's "congruent". It is good, important, and "right" to be angry with someone, however we feel is always "right" because it is our feelings and they just "are" but there are better ways to treat/actions to take with someone you care about?