That sounds like a huge conflict of interest. The only time she has seen hubby is when he has come to my appointment. T recommended it but said I was the one in control of whether he comes or not. She will not see any family members. Shortly after I started seeing her she asked to hubby had any siblings who might be looking for a T. A couple with my last name had been referred to her and she wanted to make sure it wasn't a family member. I told her my in laws names and a bit but said I doubted it was them. She said if it were a family member she had other T's she would refer them to. About a month later I saw my Brother in law and his wife seeing another counselor in the building...