Well.. yea, but for me it is IRL as well. People simply cannot stand that I exist. I've had stalkers and death threats by people on sites even where I have made myself utterly small and basically never spoken. I have actually been kicked out of places not for breaking rules because I didn't, but to stop other people from misbehaving, which they did because they were such great people and I was such a lowlife.

Sometimes I think they can just glance at us and know who "we" are.