I defiantly get what you are saying and it makes a lot of sense though I will give you a little more context. We weren't going to move in together to rush things. I recently moved out to Arkansas and am living with family friend but things were getting tough in the small apartment so I went to try to get my own place and due to some credit issues I wasnt approved for an apartment so she said "why don't we just get a place together under my name" so really this started as a way to help me out of a bad situation but that's neither here nor there. I'm going to give her a few days and see what she says if it is negative I'll move on. I've accepted that fact that 99% of the time that line means it's over but at the same time I would feel bad if I didn't give her a chance to make things right.