The only thing I didn't relate to is for No. 2, my ex did take me out all the time, but it always felt self-motivated because he didn't like homecooked meals and if we went out, he felt like I was obligated to have sex (I disabused him of that idea every time...)

But the sex life definitely disappeared, relatively quickly with these points of the article at the forefront! There were some other issues too, but it's all in the past now.

Seems like it's hard to find men instead of boys though (granted I'm 24 so it might be the age group but still...)