I am looking for a way to not be sexually attracted to my wife as she does not/can not have sex anymore. She fell 2 years ago and injured her hip and knee and now having sex is to painful for her. We once had a great sex life in fact we were swingers when we met but she has decided that we no longer are the last time we were intimate was 7 months ago and I don't see anything changing anytime soon. Any suggestions?