I have a 3 1/2 y o... maybe you'd get along? He's really very cute.
Seriously, it seems like every time there is some progress... esp around trust or connection, it just brings MORE issues. It's not so simple as learning to trust but also redefining what trust is... not gullibility, not unsafe, etc.
I sometimes feel really pathetic... I'll say to my therapist "Well, I know this is progress but it feels AWFUL'. :-\
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